What To Wear On Your First Date

Deciding what to wear on your first date doesn’t have to be a stressful event.  Well here is some more first date advice for you and this is dating advice for women and men.  The most important thing on a first date is to be comfortable.  Don’t be sleazy take it easy.  You don’t want to wear jeans that are to tight.  Instead of too revealing try to keep something to the imagination: crocheted sweaters, sheer tops over a tank, slit skirts.

Again please remember this is also dating advice for men. Wear your favorite color and maybe your favorite accessory.  Be sure to stay away from wearing white in case of accidental spillage.  Wear comfortable shoes, never know if you’re going for a long walk, or maybe even dancing. What to wear on your first date should not be overwhelming if you keep in mind the little advice I gave you.

Don’t be nervous and just enjoy yourself. Keep a look out for more of my first date advice.

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First Date Kiss


Normally, the rule of thumb is you shouldn’t have a first date kiss.  But here is some “kiss advice” if you do end up in this situation. Now I am not going to give you kissing techniques or tell you that you have to learn to kiss because you should know all this by now.  You want your first date kiss to be a light peck on the cheek or maybe even on the lips. These tips for kissing  should only be allowed once you feel comfortable enough with your date.  When you feel that you’re close enough to your date while having fun doing a set of adventurous activities, this might be the right time to use my kiss advice.

If you’re talking while having a quiet walk at the park and you notice that he/she is looking directly at your eyes, this is usually another one of those good kissing moments. Try to look at his/her eyes and see if they are sincere enough to give you a light peck on the lips. You’ll usually feel if it’s just the right time.

Sharing moments are usually the best times to kiss on a date, especially if you’re talking about something personal. The situation doesn’t need to be dramatic. The right moment to kiss during these sharing moments is when you feel comfortable sharing your personal experiences with your date.

At the end of the date, you can give him/her a light peck on the cheek, and maybe include a little hand holding if it was a good date. If you plan on another date then you can most likely look forward to some more good kissing. That is all I have for kiss tips on your first date kiss.

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First Date Tips

Here is some first date tips since we all know that getting ready for a first date with someone can be pretty challenging especially since you are unsure of their likes and dislikes.  Everyone knows that the first impression is the most important. Here is some more of my first date advice and I am going to help you with a few judgment calls. This can really help you with preparing for your first date.

Dating Advice For Women:

*  Minimize your makeup, too much is not sexy. In fact it can be pretty tacky. Always remember less is definitely more.

*  Be careful about wearing too much jewelry. Earrings, simple necklace and maybe a small chain bracelet.

*  Be choosy with the perfume and don’t over do it. Try something clean and soft smelling. You don’t want to smell like you bathed in it.

*  Hairspray may help you get the right style you want but remember it does not smell good and is very unpleasant to touch. Avoid using it if you can.

*  Bright lipstick and nail polish looks cheap so stick to something normal and soft. You should pick a neutral shade that compliments your skin tone.

*  Lastly make sure your breasts are not all he wants to look at, be tasteful and just show a little cleavage. Just give him a little taste.

Dating Advice For Men:

*  Please be sure to wear antiperspirant deodorant. It is so unattractive to see wet spots under your arms.

*  Don’t wear a suit unless you are going somewhere that calls for one. She will fill under dressed and you will  look uncomfortable.

*  Be easy on the aftershave and cologne, you don’t want to smell like you bathed in it.

*  Avoid wearing the t-shirts with the offensive slogans on them. They can be very offensive.

*  Dress comfortably but nice. Don’t wear your pants too baggy or too tight. Slacks and a nice dress shirt and you can’t go wrong.

For both ladies and gents. Try to keep your tattoos covered. Another thing, white teeth are always a plus. Compliment your date on how they look even if your not impressed. With my first date tips and advice for both men and women you should now be more confident in knowing what to do.

Lastly, relax and enjoy yourself!

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Dating Food: What To Avoid

Yes believe it or not there are rules on dating food and things to eat and things to avoid. By ordering the wrong food you could be setting yourself up for a very embarrassing situation. You want to stick to things that are easy to eat. Here are some more of my first date tips.

Dating Food To Avoid:

*  Gassy foods

*  Messy foods

*  Food that can easily get caught in your teeth

*  Garlic and onions

*  Corn on the cob

*  Shelled Seafood

*  Beans

*  Most Cheese

When your date reflects on your time together flashbacks of you digging in your mouth with a toothpick or remembering that you were in desperate need of  some breathe freshener could greatly decrease your probability of getting a second date. If you want to keep up a sexy and alluring image or if you’re even hoping for a kiss then stick to my list of  “Dating Food: What To Avoid” and you will be just fine.

Good Luck.

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What To Eat On Your First Date

Your first date is already nerve racking as it is, so I say keep it simple.  Go somewhere that the menu has a lot of variety so you both can make a decision fairly easy. I always liked to go to places that were kind of busy and had a lot of things going on so it gives you plenty to talk about.

Have some pasta, you normally can’t go wrong there, unless you’re wearing white. Good old steak and potatoes are always a safe choice too. Now it does not always have to be dinner, you can go out to lunch.  Grab some sandwiches and chips and head over to the beach or a park.

Whatever you do just relax and have FUN.


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First Date Advice: Romantic Date Ideas Or Just Some Fun Date Ideas

Are you ready for some more first date advice? Here are some fun date ideas and I even threw in a few romantic date ideas too.  Here is my favorite first date advice for you, if you’re unsure of the date you can go to a coffee shop, it does not have to be a fancy restaurant, that way you can make it short and sweet.  Now if you already have a connection with this person then let me give you some more romantic date ideas like a stroll on the boardwalk and watch the sunset together. Another romantic first date idea is to cook a meal together and include wine, candles, and roses.

For fun date ideas why not make it different and more interesting by taking a dance class together or a yoga class.  Another fun date idea is to go out for ice cream.  If you like sports, try a sporting event or go bowling. Be adventurous and go on a hot air balloon ride or step it up and go sky diving. Horse back riding is another romantic thing to do.  Show off your skills at ice skating or maybe roller blading in the park. For more tips on dating check out my other blogs and future ones to come.

Make it a date you both will never forget. Keep looking out for new information on first date advice.


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What To Talk About On Your First Date

It’s always hard to know what to talk about on your first date. That is why I am here offering some first date advice. Here are tips on what not to say on a first date and also tips on what to talk about on your first date.

Ideas On What To Talk About On Your First Date:

* It’s normally a safe bet to talk about family on your first date. Find out if he/she is very close to their family and about their childhood.

*  Talk about your career, what you’re doing now and what you have done in the past.  Ask him/her about their careers.

*  Talk about current events, what’s going on locally or nationally.

*  Reveal your likes and dislikes. Tell him/her your interests and ask them the same. This helps to get to know each other faster and if you will be a good match.

What Not To Say On A First Date:

*  Do not talk about anything negative. Stay upbeat and positive.

*  Do not say you’re ready to get married and have kids.

*  Politics are off limits.  It is best to avoid emotional topics to stay clear of a sparring match.

*  Never talk about your ex unless they ask but keep it short and simple.

*  Do not ask him/her if they want to come over to your place after the date.

Well I hope that gives you some insight on what to talk about and what not to say on a first date.  Just have fun. I am sure there will be more first date advice coming in the near future.

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